Answers for @ffsGiovinco

You asked me why do I want to go to Czech Republic or Poland. It’s not so much I am desperate to go to those two countries in particular, since I know there are obstacles. The weather, the language, the culture and many things. Hell, I’m not sure the whole “Based” meme really rings true in Eastern Europe due to how much more socially liberal they’ve become since communism ended in the early 1990s.

And admittedly yes, I do fancy some Eastern European women- even though I have no idea of what they think of a skinny 5′ 7″ Chinese man in his 30s with a thinning hairline.

Would I succeed in finding decent employment? Could I find a residency permit? Would I find decent accommodation? Could I make friends at all? Could I do well-paying remote work?!

It’s partly down to the fact I do not see the Western world (Britain, USA, Canada, Australia, France, Germany, Ireland, Netherlands, Belgium & possibly Spain, Italy and Portugal) going in the right direction. Extreme social liberalism, ethnic balkanisation (thanks to ever increasing immigration), declining religiosity (except Islam), single motherhood, social media, LGBTQ propaganda and stupid politicians- who start problems and then propose to solve those problems they were catalyst in enabling- are some of the things I hate.

I wished I had the bollocks to think around my problems back between when I was 11 and 18 years old. Whenever I thought about Eastern Europe, Italy, Portugal or Spain, I used to think “racist communist peasants or Latino morons” and I could remember watching BBC’s laughable documentary about UEFA Euro 2012 tournament in Poland & Ukraine. The presenters tried their pitiful hardest to make the black footballers say Eastern Europe was full of racist psychopaths, but failed!

I’ve spent my past 20 years struggling to hone in on my addiction to watching F1. F1, along with watching snooker, junk TV, football and browsing MySpace, have been my procrastination clutch methods of avoiding taking responsibilities.

I wished I could use a time machine so I could yell at 11 year old me, telling him to leave the confines of his comfy home and actually get real hobbies.

But sadly, I’m 32 years old and I’m beginning to realise time is running out before (well actually I am already) middle aged.

I sob over girlfriends I never had, I sob about the health problems I’ve had over eczema and my social anxiety.

And honestly, if I ever succeed in having children (that looks increasingly less likely by every second I piss around doing nothing with my life), I want to raise them in Poland or Czech Republic- or literally any country that doesn’t have drag queen story hour or pretends their white nations have always been multiethnic (hint: no that’s not true, it’s just a sad attempt to make ethnic minorities to feel “included” when my family’s heritage lies mostly in Hong Kong, China & Mexico) in their curriculum at school.

I don’t envision a future for myself in the UK or any western nation. I know Eastern Europe & even Japan has recently fallen victim to globohomo, where “diversity is our strength” and Iran, China & Russia are the trivium are evil and most be conquered is a message becoming rapidly prevalent.

However, I see hope in Visegrad Eastern Europe. They are more alert and aware of the dangers of communism, authoritarian tyrants and barbarian hordes on their gates due to their geography and history. I’m not that much of a fan of Viktor Orban due to his questionable love of communist China. Hungary is a bit of mess to be honest and most of their family stimulus packages actually goes to single mothers and gypsies.

However, Czechia, Poland & Slovakia are much smaller in population size, so they have more of a closeness in similarities- more of an ethnic “family” compared to UK, France, Germany, USA, Canada & Australia.

Plus huge immigration is making houses more expensive. I need to mention the farmers’ protest in the Netherlands- the government is destroying farms to create new accommodation for “refugees”.

The Ukraine crisis is complicated and I’m not so well educated on it like I was with Hong Kong and China. Apparently western governments are planning to invest resources into the country’s infrastructure such as houses and… agriculture (Yet they’re shutting down farms in the Netherlands?!).

The culture wars between the left and right is nauseating and painful. I know Eastern Europe also has its own debates over cultural libertinism, Russia & social conservatism. Czech Republic is also renowned for being by far the most atheist Slavic nation. Poland, once very Catholic, but they themselves have become more feminist and liberal, partly due to Poles becoming westernised from their time living and working in UK & Germany.

The final part is personal. I’ve never been truly independent, due to struggling with learning difficulties in my early years, where I didn’t start speaking properly until I was 6 years old. I have almost zero ability to speak Cantonese properly due to me needing to prioritise learning English for the sake of… well, having a semi-normal life. I feel like regardless of where I’ll live in UK, my parents will always want to keep an eye on me at all times. That’s despite them moaning back at others that I never do anything for myself.

I believe I need to leave UK when I can for my own self-respect. I need to deal with problems by myself and let my parents enjoy their upcoming retirement. If I’m stuck in the UK for the rest of my life, I will feel like a failure. I am aware that, unless a major civil conflict occurs, the demographics of the Western world could look similar to South America by 2050 & possibly South Africa by 2100.

Do I want my children to grow up in a place like what the West is becoming? I don’t want to live in China due to the tyrannical communist party, who have imposed zero Covid measures to horrendous effect. China, Japan, South Korea and other East Asian countries for heading for serious demographic decline- very few children being born, lots of old people living into their 70s and 80s with no-one to care for them.

A message for young men and women: How supporting Kimi Raikkonen & being obsessed with F1 RUINED my life

Reading my social media feed concerns me. It’s full of angry people posting nonsense “How could anyone like Kimi?” or “How could anyone hate Max?” and get irritated when they get nothing but incendiary backlash.

It’s not too late for you to sort your life out. It may be too late for me to become rich, play in a band, do club racing, have 5 kids and move to Czech Republic or Poland, but I’ll give you tips:

Put your phone down.

Seek a therapist or help.

Stop watching junk TV.

Realise F1 is not the end of the world.

Learn a musical instrument.

Learn a language.

Develop a better attitude.

Build a routine or timetable.

Find a new hobby.

Find new friends who help you appropriately and don’t just egg on bad habits you may have.

WHAT ABOUT ME?

All I want to do is become financially independent enough to leave my parents’ home and go to Eastern Europe.